If you've ever fallen in love with a place while on vacation and wondered what it would be like to live there for more than a usual vacation's worth of time, you're my reader. Step right into a vicarious travel experience as Larry Lawyer and I try to make ourselves at home in Provence. Stay with us -- we've got a virtual guest room -- as we spend a month in each of four consecutive years in the pretty, medieval town of L'Isle sur la Sorgue - pronounced 'Leel sur la Sorg' - in the heart of Provence." Don't worry if you can't speak or understand French. Hang out with us for a while and you'll speak it as badly as we do.

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One Day at a Time

Sep 27, 2012

I have never been an alcoholic, although having a child with Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy can certainly drive you to drink. However, I do find the AA mantra – one day at a time – useful advice for those of us who are tempted, at our peril, to imagine wheelchairs while our children are still walking, or, even worse, death when they’re still very much alive.

When we received the diagnosis of DMD I hopped right on the catastrophe express and rode it straight to the last stop. It was my husband, Larry, who flagged me down. “Today is only Tuesday,” he said. “It is not all the days of the week and all the years of his life, and everything that is going to happen is not happening all at once.”

Have you ever ridden a bike up a steep hill? If you look at the hill looming before you, you are likely to feel overwhelmed and defeated. However, if you keep your eyes trained on the road directly beneath your pedals, you are more likely to make it to the top.

Please stop thinking about tomorrow. Now is quite enough.